I remember
finally getting into the position in my life where I felt confident. Where
I wanted a relationship. Where I was 'that' guy women were into, and I finally had choice of the right woman to share my life with me.
I started meeting and dating different women, looking for the right one...
Then, I'd on dates, and I'd keep finding after the date that the texting exchanges would bore me, and I'd lose interest.
Some were too serious. Some were too boring. Some didn't seem confident.
Then, I met Annie... and the truth is, we went home together. It was only supposed to be a one night stand.
When she left the next morning, and started chatting via text, I noticed something interesting.
I was more and more excited to see her each time we texted.
The way she showed confidence, social intelligence, emotion and value over text was something I'd never encountered before.
I felt like I was getting a window into the incredible experience I'd get seeing her again - and I wanted it.
Soon, I was taking her on a first date. Then another, and another. I was pulling out all the stops to impress a woman I'd already slept with.
Then, she sent me one text that shifted everything. At that moment, I knew I wanted her as my girlfriend.
I was at the gym, and recieved an odd text from her. It read "Heyyy. So Mark just sent me this. What does he mean here?!? What do I respond?!?!?! Gahhhhhhh seyuooyuoegseoug I have no idea what to dooo xox" with a screenshot of the text I'd just sent her!!
What on earth?
Yep. She had accidentally texted me (instead of her friend) a screenshot of my own text... asking what to reply to it!!!
(I don't think a more embarressing text scenario exists)
That was when Annie truly pulled out her Messaging Magic.
A few minutes later, before I'd had the chance to respond, she sent a follow up text.
And to this day, seven years later, I've never forgotten that text.
I burst out laughing, and through what she'd written, Annie had turned the most embarressing text situation possible to make me fall even harder for her.
That was when I knew I was falling for this girl.
As I continued to date her and eventually make her my partner, I started thinking about that one text I couldn't forget, and how the simplest, silly message had demonstrated her value so impressively.
The truth is. It wasn't what she wrote. Even if I told you exactly what it was, it would be no use to you. You cannot take her text and use it word for word.
The reason I fell so deeply for Annie was because she had a magic way of texting that she could mould to any scenario.
You could literally throw any situation at Annie and she'd have a text that could make her seem playful and attractive in response.
There were no misunderstandings. No essays. No conversations over text that should have been done in person. Annie was the perfect texter. It's the reason she got a date which led her to becoming my girlfriend.
And that's what I want for you.
Even once me and Annie were together, I'd see the way she'd text and get constant attention from men. Every one of her male friends thought they had a chance with her, simply because of the way she followed the three commandments. She was practically batting guys off with a stick!
Seeing this over and over again was when I knew I had to share what I'd learned - Messaging Magic - with the world. I'm passionate about you have an amazing relationship with a guy, and I know that great texting an essential step to you doing that.